
Originally Posted by
LuciusBeebe
So first i'm a rebellious teenager, and now i'm a bad father?
Nothing burns me more than to see a pregnant woman smoking like a chimney or parents who willingly expose their kids to something that is so dangerous when they don't have a say in the matter. It's wrong and it's extremely selfish. Even when I smoked I never did it in the house and never around my boys. They have never even seen me smoke. My choice.
My point, which you ignored, is that I believe the effects of secondhand smoke are greatly exaggerated. Why do I believe this? Many reasons.
1. I am the child of heavy smokers. The scenario you accuse me of, Ebbie? Yeah, I was the kid in that scenario. No adverse health effects here! No asthma. No shortness of breath.
YET. And I too, am the child of two former heavy smokers. Lots of allergies and sensitivities to many different things so I speak from experience.
2. Impossibility of accurate experiments. How can they? You can't sequester a human, put them in a "average" setting, and give them "average" secondhand smoke. So how do they determine their statistics? Anecdotal evidence, and coincidence. Perhaps someone who never smoked, but lived with someone who does, dies of lung cancer. Do they attribute the death to the secondhand smoke? If so, what of the people who get lung cancer with no secondhand smoke? There's just no proof, its all conjecture.
Any second hand smoke is toxic and harmful. That is my believe and opinion. I am not a scientist and as far as I know you aren't either so all we have is our beliefs.
3. Willingness to lie and exaggerate. All my life I have heard the propaganda of people trying to get me to believe the things they say are bad actually are bad. As I said before, the Red Cross blames thousands of cases of SIDS per year on secondhand smoke, despite the FACT that SIDS is a death that is unexplainable. So how can they blame ANYTHING for a SIDS case? You can't. So if they're willing to lie about that, why should I believe anything they say?
You can hardly compare SIDS to slowly dying from other people's smoke. I didn't say I believe every report I read or hear. If that were the case we'd all be dead. But it doesn't take a genius to figure out that inhaling and exhaling toxic chemicals is a danger to you and everyone around you. If you choose not to believe it then you are free to do so.
Now, Ebbie, I have provided you with multiple examples of why I don't believe the things i'm told about the effects of secondhand smoke. All without insulting you, as well. Why not give it a try. Why do you believe that it is as harmful as they say?
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